1000.eng Self-confidence makes a person positive, optimistic and willing to take initiatives in life. People with high self confidence are not easily hurt by small things; but if they do get hurt, they are able to bounce back soon .High Self Confidence makes a person comfortable in social settings – even among people not well known.
1001.eng However a too high a self confidence can make a person arrogant, egoistical, and a high risk takers. They may land into trouble because they under estimate situations in relation to their capacities.
1002.eng On the other hand a low self-confidence leads to quick hurts; and renders low estimation of talents and competencies owned. Such people hold back, in situations where they should take steps.
1003.eng Four types of responses that people make follow each situation below. Choose the response that best describes you.
1004.eng 1.When people praise you for something you have done:
1005.eng a) You feel uncomfortable and embarrassed
1006.eng b) You feel good and say “ Thank you”
1007.eng c) You say “Thank you” and remind the person that you are usually good at things
1008.eng d) You underplay the importance of what you did
1009.eng 2.When you go to a new place where there are people you do not know at all:
1010.eng a You announce your arrival and join people and freely participate in the discussion
1011.eng b. You wait for others to talk to you
1012.eng c You feel insecure and shy
1013.eng d. You take the initiative to introduce yourself and strike a conversation
1014.eng 3. While eating in posh and expensive restaurants if the service is below standard :
1015.eng a. You immediately demand better service by loudly and boldly showing your displeasure.
1016.eng b. You raise the issue with concerned authority and request for a change in service.
1017.eng c . You feel upset but do not speak up, because you are afraid there may be a scene.
1018.eng d. You never complain .
1019.eng 4. You are in a long line to buy tickets for a bus journey. You have to catch the bus in 15 minutes and you feel that waiting in the line will take you at least 30 minutes to reach the counter:
1020.eng a. You wait and hope for the best.
1021.eng b. You express your anxiety to the people standing near you.
1022.eng c. You walk to the head of the line and explain your problem to some people and request help from those standing in front.
1023.eng d. You push your hand in the counter, breaking/jumping the line and demand your ticket.
1024.eng 5.In a party where there is a mixed crowd of known and unknown people :
1025.eng a. You feel uncomfortable of the new people.
1026.eng b. You make sure you mix with as many people as you can .
1027.eng c. You stay with your friend and enjoy yourself.
1028.eng d. You make new friends with out ignoring people you know.
1029.eng 6. For day to day decision making:
1030.eng a. You never take advice.
1031.eng b. You take advice from people around you.
1032.eng c. You take advice from others, but do what you want to.
1033.eng d. You rarely take advice.
1034.eng 7.With your senior teachers and superiors:
1035.eng a. You express disagreement without offending the seniors.
1036.eng b. You express disagreement hesitatingly.
1037.eng c. You express disagreement s without worrying about offending anyone.
1038.eng d. You never express disagreement on issues.
1039.eng 8. When you have been asked to take up a difficult assignment by your superiors you would:
1040.eng a. Do the task but depend a lot on help from your boss and friends.
1041.eng b. Try and get out of it.
1042.eng c. You would work hard and learn what ever there is to learn and perform.
1043.eng d. Get started immediately and complete the task.
1044.eng 9. When people criticize you… rightly or wrongly:
1045.eng a. You feel miserable and unhappy.
1046.eng b. You feel bad and try to defend your self.
1047.eng c. You remain unaffected and consider it to be irrelevant.
1048.eng d. You don’t feel very bad, but do think constructively about the criticism.
1049.eng 10. When you want some assignment or a favor from your superiors you :
1050.eng a. Demand and persuade the superior in every way.
1051.eng b. Drops hint to show your interest.
1052.eng c. Follow rules and processes while expressing your interest.
1053.eng d. Wait for the superior to offer it to you.
1054.eng 11. In terms of looks, intelligence and personality, do you believe you are:
1055.eng a. Below average
1056.eng b. Average
1057.eng c. Above average
1058.eng d. Definitely on the higher side
1059.eng 12. Do you believe you should be heading an organization:
1060.eng a. Never
1061.eng b. Sometimes
1062.eng c. Often
1063.eng d. Always
1064.eng 13. If you have to rate yourself on your ability to perform tasks:
1065.eng a. You normally under perform
1066.eng b. You sometimes perform well
1067.eng c. You normally perform well
1068.eng d. You always perform well
1069.eng 14. When you interact with members of the opposite gender you find:
1070.eng a. They usually find you attractive and interesting.
1071.eng b. They are normally not attracted to you.
1072.eng c. They sometimes find you interesting.
1073.eng d. They are always attracted to you.
1074.eng 15. With respect to the clothes you wear; you :
1075.eng a. Like sober clothes
1076.eng c. Like to experiment with clothes
1077.eng b. Like to wear what most people wear
1078.eng d. Can carry off anything
1079.eng 16. If work has to make you go to a place that is outside your country and not very well known:
1080.eng a. You would not go.
1081.eng b. You will not be affected at all.
1082.eng c. You will feel challenged and interested.
1083.eng d. You may go but will be unhappy.
1084.eng 17. Happiness for you is:
1085.eng a. Being with people who care for you.
1086.eng b. Being with known people.
1087.eng c. Being with new people.
1088.eng d. Being with any one.
1089.eng 18. When I am alone, I feel:
1090.eng a. Lost and lonely.
1091.eng b. Not very happy.
1092.eng c. Happy and secure.
1093.eng d. I must be with someone soon.
1094.eng 19. When there is some accident or a problem in a public place:
1095.eng a. You rush in and do something.
1096.eng b. You see what others are doing and follow them.
1097.eng c. You get away from the situation as soon as you can.
1098.eng d. You actively help, making sure you do not get into trouble.
1099.eng 20. I believe:
1100.eng a. God helps the poor and weak.
1101.eng b. God helps the deserving.
1102.eng c. God helps those who help themselves.
1103.eng d. There is no God, we have to depend on our self.
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